What snack would you eat right now?
As I am writing this at 7.44, I would not eat anything at all. I can never eat before 8am and breakfast is often later. When I was commuting I would not eat breakfast at all. I would have a Breakfast Bar at work either between 9 and 10 if I wasn’t teaching or at the break in the lesson if I was. That would be it until lunch, although if I had a packet of crisps or cheddars I might dig into them at about 11. If someone bought in sweets, chocolates or fruit they would be put on the table by the staff room door I would generally grab something on my way past every time I had to use it! Work tends to be a snack filled space because the environment is often stressful and sometimes unpleasant and workers need something to make them feel valued at least temporarily.
Home can be a very snack filled environment, but I have a rule which I stick to very closely which is not to have a snack before midday. This is helped by the fact that I don’t have breakfast until around 9am, because I never feel like a full meal before that time. After lunch, I may have a handful of raisins or some biscuits, but I usually manage to keep to what I ate at lunch. By the evening I have had a full dinner and after dessert I don’t generally want anything else.
I have one big weakness, my wife’s baking! If there is a bun or similar in the tin I am very likely to grab one on a whim, but I know that as far as baking goes these are incredibly healthy. There is half the suggested amount of sugar and no preservatives. When I tell people that Janet only uses a relatively small amount of sugar they wonder if it just tastes bland. I can assure them that it doesn’t because there are sweet spices in the buns to give them a real hit of flavour. Today I am going to snack at least once because Janet has just baked a batch of mince pies which are my absolute favourites!!
Come up with a crazy business idea.
I have had a similar prompt before in this occasionally repetitive daily prompt asking what type of shop I would open. As a result I am going to look at our seemingly increasing determination either to just work for ourselves or to set up a money earning opportunity alongside our main jobs.
As with so many things, the Internet is to blame for the increasing obsession with opening up businesses. Ebay, Etsy, Amazon and the various reselling sites are full of ‘success stories’ of people who have made thousands of pounds for very little effort. That is of course untrue. It reminds me of the old pyramid schemes where the people setting them up got very rich while the clueless individuals who signed up either got very little or they actually lost money.
On the Internet the life cycle of these firms is far shorter than the old mail in promises of getting rich quick. That is not the only problem. We are constantly being encouraged to ‘monetise’ our skills, or those things we don’t need or want anymore, to make ‘easy money’! Of course, in reality hardly anyone makes more than pocket money from building a business of any sort, either on or offline, and the vast majority lose all the time and money which are invested. The people who can least afford the time and the investment plunge into a market that, with vanishingly few exceptions, they don’t understand and can’t devote the time to.
So, unless you want to develop a proper business plan, can afford to lose all the money invested and have the money behind you to concentrate only on the new business, don’t bother. It’s doomed to failure!
Describe an item you were incredibly attached to as a youth. What became of it?
I have always worn my favourite clothes for many years. I have a suit I first got in 1987 and a very garish Hawaiian shirt I got in America during my summer there in 1986! The first piece of clothing that I took to was a jumper that I wore throughout my teens and into my twenties.

I am the taller of the two figures wearing the jumper I called Old Faithful. It was a black and white jumper which fitted like a glove whatever my height or shape. My tendency as a child, and as an adult to this day, has been to become very attached to inanimate objects and to give them an almost talismanic quality. I wonder if it’s connected to my Asperger’s. Maybe, maybe not. Anyway, whenever I wore it I always felt better because it was like a comfort blanket. As a teenager it was much needed given how difficult things were at school in particular.
It went missing in a move, one of many I had in my teens and twenties. I was sad at the time but I now look back with wry amusement at the way I was determined to associate it with things being better for me. It worked it’s magic then and I was very grateful, but I realise now that I had the control because my mindset changed when I wore it and that was down to me not the clothes.
What is your mission?
Ever since I got married, my mission has never changed. I have always wanted to do the best for my family. They are central to my life and my purpose. I am always thinking about them first and I know I am not alone. When I have a decision to make I instantly think about how it will affect them. If I feel like I am putting myself first I feel guilty about that. I should always think about what they need first.
When I was in Australia back in 2003 we had left Hong Kong ahead of schedule and whilst I knew that we were making the correct decision I also knew that financially it was going to be difficult. I was lucky enough to be able to get 3 or 4 days teaching a week alongside the University work and Janet was also able to find some part time work along the way. Despite this, we were very tight for cash so I gave up alcohol and pretty much all non essential spending in order to ensure that my children could get the most of the opportunities available in Australia for sport and dance. The self imposed ban lasted about 8 years and I still barely touch alcohol and I always consider every bit of spending to make sure I am not being selfish. It’s a really good thing because I know I am always doing my best for my family at whatever stages of their lives they are.
Mission Statement
Family First, Last and Always
