Where can you reduce clutter in your life?
When we think about clutter it tends to be our belongings we think of. That’s what the ‘self help’ and ‘lifestyle’ books concentrate on. However, the clutter we really need to concentrate on is the internal clutter that our minds are more and more prey to these days.
I have started to try to reduce my internal clutter by removing or at least reducing the Internet content that I look at which either wastes my time or makes me feel angry. The way that this works is using the ScreenZen app to reduce my time on social media on my phone to 45 minutes at the most each day. Yes, I can go to the laptop and take a look but I don’t tend to do that anything like as much as I used to on the phone. I have reduced my social media outlets to two at a time and I really don’t miss the other three anything like as much as I expected. I have the Calm app which I have mentioned a good few times and I also have Happy Color which I love and which gives my mind time to breathe.
Am I going to sort out the external clutter? To some extent, but it isn’t the most important thing to do. Getting your mind clearer is the best way you can deal with clutter in all its forms.
What is your favorite animal?
I love seeing animals of all kinds in the wild. There is something incredible in seeing a creature living a life that is close to what nature intended. Only one creature does not and that of course is human beings. Based on the Bible, we see ourselves as having ‘dominion’ over all other inhabitants of the Earth. This is nonsense in my opinion. We are not a species who are different from every other, we are just one branch of the animal kingdom, specifically one evolved from primates. Instead of working with other creatures we work against them and we destroy and poison their habitats.
Even if I accept that we do actually have ‘dominion’ we are doing an appalling job aren’t we? World leaders who profess to believe in some form of God are enthusiastic in their attempts to destroy our planet’s habitats and to dig up more and more areas to make the survival of other living things even less likely. How is that exercising dominion? Perhaps it is a misreading of dominion as dominance that current and past leaders have had, a misreading that says so much about us as a species and the awful human beings we elect around the world.
I remember a poem I read at school which was about the last rabbit on the last piece of grass in England. It never occurred to me that I could live to see it.
In what ways do you communicate online?
I first started using the Internet back in the early 2000s. At that point it was still very much a niche pursuit and in the very early days I just used it to buy online invariably from Amazon. When I moved to Hong Kong I used it to keep in touch with people in the UK and the US mainly via Facebook. After a while I started using it to take a DELTA course which really helped my EAP teaching, but because it was online was never accepted by any organisation, even though the content was excellent. Once I discovered Friends Reunited I added it to my communication repertoire. That and Facebook enabled me to keep in touch and get back in touch with people. Along with that I enjoyed using chat boards to talk about books and films.
Looking back to 20 years ago, communication online was there for the purpose of sharing ideas with people you often didn’t know and for reminiscing on a shared past with people you did. The anger, controversy and rage bait approach that we have nowadays was practically unheard of. Of course it existed but it was very occasional in nature whereas now you end up seeing it everywhere. I think I first noticed it when I put a couple of books on Kindle and some of the comments were very unpleasant. I would not write negative reviews for other people and I couldn’t understand the obvious delight that others took in trashing other people’s efforts. If you don’t like it, just move on, especially when it is fiction writing as something that you don’t like will be something someone else does and every writer puts heart, soul and effort into every book. It stopped me from writing fiction and moved me on to writing reviews and reflections which actually suit me much better.
Sadly, human nature being what it is, anger, spite and abuse was always going to rear its ugly head. The people in charge of huge tech companies became more and more unpleasant, attaching themselves to ever more authoritarian politicians who hated those who disagreed with them. It’s now reflective of the worst of human nature and I do miss the old days of the Internet where nice people were the majority of users. I do still value little areas of the Internet like this but they are few and far between. As the sweatshirt I am wearing today says ‘People Ruin Everything’! The Internet was always going to be ruined and the only surprise was that it stayed nice for so long.
Think back on your most memorable road trip.
I don’t take road trips for one simple reason. Being in a car is never an enjoyable part of the holiday particularly given the extreme congestion and increasingly aggressive behaviour of other road users. However, it’s not just cars. My family will treat travel to a destination as part of the holiday, whether that be by train or plane. For me, it’s a necessary evil. The holiday never starts until I get to the destination, and not fully until I get to where I am staying. I dislike travelling to and from a destination because I see it as completely wasted time.
Airport terminals, quite apart from the concerning double meaning (!) are awful places. People are generally eating and drinking to stave off boredom, the shops are over priced and lacking in quality for the most part. I just look to get through the process because it’s never enjoyable for me.
So, you can keep car drives, plane flights or train rides. If I could invent one thing it would be a teleporter that would get me to my destination immediately so I could avoid the tiring and tiresome process of travelling to somewhere I would like to go.

