The most important invention in your lifetime is…
The invention that has completely changed the world and our behaviour is the mobile phone. It is a combination of old and new ideas and technology, with telephone communications being very well established for over a century before being combined with the increasingly rapid development of microchips.
When I look back at my teens and twenties my life was completely different to my own children’s lives. I would be out of contact with my parents for hours on end and they wouldn’t be even slightly concerned, because it was completely normal. In my late teens I would often be out of the house pretty much all weekend and my parents would assume that I was with one of my friends. If they got worried they could always ring up on the home phone and check, but to be honest after I got to 18 they weren’t in the slightest bit concerned.
When I was at Staffordshire Polytechnic I was totally reliant on phone boxes as I didn’t have a phone at home. If there was someone in the nearest phone box you either queued up or you went to find another one as they were quite common throughout the country. Things improved when we got a home phone but even then, costs were really high at certain times of the day and week so if you were on a tight budget you were really restricted to phoning people at the weekend. Any other time would count as urgent or even an emergency.
Looking back, it was in Japan that I think life and my contacts with people would have been so different. A phone call in Japan that came from overseas would be an emergency option only. Making a call back to the UK was a similar emergency option and whoever was calling would be spending a huge amount of money per minute so conversation was purposeful, quick and specific. The only other option was a letter so if you were no good at writing those contact withered. Now, there was a clear element of out of sight, out of mind as well because you were in a country your friends could barely picture living a life completely different from them. However, a mobile phone and a WhatsApp group would almost certainly have ensured that a number of my former friends would have stayed in touch.
We often talk about the advantages and disadvantages of mobile phone technology but it is to my mind the single most important development of my lifetime. In pure impact nothing has come close, not even the home computer. I think, on balance, I would say it has been a positive development but you have to use it really carefully or it will use you!
Just a final thought. I have two blocked ears, which I will get sorted out next Wednesday, but the mobile phone is a real lifeline for me. My family can WhatsApp me and it saves the shouting or sign language! Without the phone things would currently be far more difficult.
Describe your most ideal day from beginning to end.
One of my biggest problems has always been an inability to be satisfied with days that other people might consider ideal. I can see things that could have been even better and I have tended to focus on little irritations or problems that have robbed me of the feeling of an ideal day. A transport issue, a small disagreement or a perception of things being too expensive have always derailed me.
However, in the past year or so I have been making a real effort to appreciate what is happening in the moment. Two days recently come to mind as being close to ideal.
First there was the trip to Stonehenge to walk inside the Stone Circle. It was a morning of magic, peace and happiness, a feeling of coming face to face with an incredible construction whose magic reaches across the millenia. Having the opportunity to explore this incredible monument was an absolute privilege.
Second was our trip to the Salzburg Christmas Market which took place on a day which started with some flakes of snow to add a little touch of festive magic in November. The market was another piece of magic with an atmosphere of friendliness and happiness from everyone around. It was the most relaxed crowd I have ever been in and I loved every minute of it.
Perfect is the enemy of good and I was guilty of expecting perfection for so long. That’s not to say that I never enjoyed days for what they gave me, but I had that tendency to find fault where very little existed. My attitude has changed now and I am finding I am taking far more enjoyment from my experiences. Perhaps the most interesting element of this change is that I am looking back and realising, at last, that I did have more than my share of ideal days which I loved at the time but had recast in my mind as less enjoyable than they actually were. I am happier and now much more likely to have ideal days in many different forms.






How do significant life events or the passage of time influence your perspective on life?
Perspective is, to my way of thinking, a way for the mind to search for patterns. We seem to be genetically hard wired to look for patterns in order to make sense of life. Whether it is the narrow limit of our own life, or the global flow of events, we try to make sense of it with our use of perspective. Often, we impose patterns on things that have happened in retrospect, and those patterns are a case of ‘Post Hoc Ergo Proctor Hoc’ – ‘After it, therefore because of it’. We say, because this happened, that happened, or we were led to this point by whatever supernatural agency you favour. The truth is that our decisions are made from incomplete information, generally random and almost certainly not the result of fate or some guiding force from outside. Note, I say ‘almost certainly’ as I may possibly be wrong. One thing that my perspective has taught me is that I can’t be 100% certain about anything. It is wrong to dismiss someone that you are sure is incorrect or something you are sure is non existent, because, as I said earlier, you are working from very incomplete information.
I am happy to allow for a small element of doubt in the global picture and also to acknowledge that my path through life has been almost entirely random despite any apparent patterns. If you accept those two things ‘you can deal with triumph and disaster and treat those two imposters just the same’.
Something on your “to-do list” that never gets done.
I am and always have been a massive fan of collecting physical media. From my earliest days of cassettes and singles to the recent resurgence of vinyl records, I have always loved to have my own copies of music and films/TV and I still do. The problem, of course, is that I have discs and records everywhere! I have CDs and DVDs in those cases that used to be all the rage as I remove the outer plastic cases as soon as possible. The issue is that I end up with the cases everywhere and I forget what I have and what I haven’t played in ages. So, every year or so I take the cases off of my shelves fully intending to sort them once and for all. I often get a couple of hours in, make some headway and then get completely overwhelmed by the scale of the task!! 😱😱🤣🤣
So, on my to do list this year is sorting out my CDs and DVDs once and for all, as well as reducing the number of records I have. Will it happen? I doubt it somehow but I will definitely post about it if it ever happens!! 🤣🤣 If you are interested in the sheer scale of the task look at the pictures attached!



